MOVE FOREWARD. Plan as if all has been forgiven and it's a new day. It may not be a good idea to set up a special time to talk but, let conversation flow. The problems had to do with the past generation. Don't let anger from the past destroy the present. Do and plan fun stuff. Ask member's from the other brother's family to be on your reunion committee. They may be instrumental in giving ideas to help everyone feel this is about FAMILY, not past anger. Sometimes it's best to act like you have no idea what happened to cause the division. NEXT --PRAY ON IT.