LunchBunch Chat
Friday 24 April 2009
AfriGeneas Meeting Center
Chatters
AfriVee
ALT
Ingrid_Doweary
Khathu
Seventies Soulchild
STG
Vicky
Yatah06
LOG
Vicky : hello Selma! hello yatah06
Yatah06: hi
Selma : Good Friday Afternoon/Morning yatah and Vicky
Yatah06: hi all who here
Vicky : Good Friday to you also hey Sel, are you Gaines
Selma : Gaines who?
Vicky : surname
Selma : No thats not one of mine.. LOL
Vicky : ok lol lol
Selma : Is that someone in VA?
Vicky : dunno, I got a E twitter lol
Selma : See thats why I don't twitter or twatter..getting twits from folks I don't know
Vicky : I joined but cant figure out how to use it lol .. I will stick to facebook
Selma : I have a hard enougth time keeping up with my email...I don't do face book either
..
Vicky : twitter or twatter lol lol lol
Selma : Just too much communication for me.. LOL
Vicky : Yatah06 I am still trying to find your folks in the census
Yatah06: Vicky, mine too
Vicky : have you researched all the other lines in the last family we had found
Yatah06: any no lucky
Vicky : so you searched them as far as you can go
Yatah06: i need look back where Josephine born
Vicky : I know, but we need to get first then go back
Yatah06: need find Mary Darby as list oh yea
Vicky : It might do well for you to research JosephineÕs children. The ones in
like Roosevelt.. Did you see him in the social security index?
Selma : Afternoon 3rdT
Vicky : hello 3rdTHawkins
Yatah06: he died 71 , Vicky
Vicky : yes, I saw that
3rdTHawkins : hey Vicky Selma and Yatah06
Yatah06: yea can be him Luther bec close yrs weird
Vicky : do you mean they died close to each other
Yatah06: no yrs
Vicky : oh you mean the age
Yatah06: yea
Vicky : I see
Yatah06: if Luther born or
Selma : Age being one year off is not unusual Yatah
Yatah06: ok Luther as list dig up more
Selma : Anymore luck with your Autauga county Vicky
Vicky : that would be great yatah06.. If he has children maybe you can get information from them or RooseveltÕs children. no, Selma. .I am reading up on the county I figure I would do that first and then see where it fits
ALT : Hello 3rd, Selma, STG, Vicky & yatah06
Selma : Great posting on the National Teacher award for the research project
Vicky : The PatellaÕs figure in Autauga as well as in my area of Texas research.
Yatah06: Josephine will 5 or in where she been maybe she change name
ALT : thanks Selma....Paul and his class have done great work for several years now and they are 99% "white".
Vicky : Yatah06 she was not born a Quiller so that makes sense
Selma : Hey for my money. good research is good research
ALT : very true Selma
Yatah06: yes she born Darby
Vicky : agreed Selma
Selma : If you can get kids interested and excited about history then more power to you
Vicky : right! yatah06
3rdTHawkins : hey STG and ALT
Yatah06: Mary Darby born 68
Vicky : is Mary DerbyÕs father named James
Yatah06: i not sure she on list ?
Vicky : ok
Yatah06: send me one you find wellmanfamily7@yahoo.com
Vicky : I donÕt want to do that yet Yatah06because I donÕt want to send the wrong information. I would rather start and work backwards
Selma : How was the NA segment on Monday night ALT...I forgot and went to bed
ALT : http://www.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~ohmchgs/PDF/routes_flyer.pdf I get a chance to try a "test run' for an IBGS presentation tomorrow
Vicky : There are several MaryÕs
ALT : me too Selma I just saw pt I & pt II ....they were both good
Yatah06: ohhh ok I see if you see Mary Darby with Josephine close as yrs something Josephine as child I keep try
3rdTHawkins : Oh, man, I forgot all about it this week, might miss it this Monday
Vicky : I will also yatah06
3rdTHawkins : will try to catch it the next Monday
Selma : I think this one will be on the Trail of Tears...
ALT : right ...Selma
3rdTHawkins : I will miss that, I wish I could see it
ALT : Pt II..... on Tecumseh, that is in my 'neck of the woods'
Vicky : I will more than likely have to start at the beginning when the reruns start
Selma : I know I thought that is why you would be sure to watch.. LOL
Yatah06: I have watch yrs 90 and 95 too watch which rite date
because Josephine on list said 95 another said 90
Selma : I bet 90 is right..women tend to lie about their age when they get older.. LOL
Vicky : just keep both dates in mind yatah06.. There is a tendency to have several dates when you do your research
Vicky : lol lol @ Selma.. Not if you are a Cougar lol
ALT : yatah06..... that's why if you aren't sure of the exact date you should use the "ca" which means about and covers the span of few years.
Yatah06: if she had first son early 8 month/ mean she preg yrs old ?
I will try fous on 90 if it true date
[Action] STG : is too tired to be a cougar
Vicky : lol @ STG
ALT : what's a "cougar"?
Yatah06: I look up rite now I look age of her brother and sister
Vicky : a cougar is an older woman who is on the prowl for a younger man
ALT : hehehehehe,,, a female version of a "dirty old man"
Vicky : lol lol
Selma : thanks Vicky. I didn't know that..LOL...like STG I am too tired
Yatah06: you can find died cer on Josephine Quiller or Edward Quiller
Edward older than her he born 86
Vicky : Do you have those DC's
Selma : Edward is Josephine's brother, Mary DarbyÕs Quiller's son?
STG : Vicky I bet you're too tired too LOL
Yatah06: no Josephine ;s hubby is Edward Quiller , Mary durby's son in law
Ingrid_Doweary : Hi Lunch Bunchers
Yatah06: my grandpa Clarence Quiller died 92
Alt : not gonna ask why y'all be so tired LOL LOL
Yatah06: that Josephine and edward's son clarence
STG : no ALT don't ask that
Selma : We need our Geritol.. LOL Do people still take that?
Vicky : two spoons
Yatah06: Josephine and Edward 's sons lutrher and clarence, another I not sure
3rdTHawkins : lol
STG : need more than that when cougars are hunting somethings
Yatah06: Vicky, if Josephine died that day my aunt born
Vicky : oh really yatah06! sorry to hear that circle of life
Yatah06: I mean Josephine died when my aunt born
if I can find her
ALT : anyone tried the "new search" on Ancestry?
Selma : Nope..how is it
ALT : I don't like it Selma,,,, ,probably haven't given it a fair shake tho'
Selma : What is different about it?
Vicky : find who, Yatah06? your aunt
Yatah06: my aunt
Vicky : yatah06, you need to check with family on that one if you are looking for census only now
Selma : Afternoon Mizz Vee
AfriVee : howdy yall
Yatah06: I will do that
Selma : Where was she living yatah..would she be in a city directory?
3rdTHawkins : hey AfriVee
Vicky : get as much information you can from them yatah06. See if they will send you copies of anything they may have
AfriVee : Howdy 3rd
Selma : ALT...Tiger not playing
Yatah06: yeah
ALT : don't think so Selma
Ingrid_Doweary : City directories can be awesome. I found 9 of the 7 names in local history research project!
AfriVee : White House is on lockdown mode
Selma : Why..did the Bo get out? Just put CNN on
AfriVee : Sounds like big security thing
Ingrid_Doweary : Air space violation. You multitask well
Yatah06: Vicky, I see I see edwin 85, effs 90 his father joseph and his mom elis spelling it close
Ingrid_Doweary : Breaking news on MSNBC
Vicky : airspace violation
Ingrid_Doweary : How'd that happen?
3rdTHawkins : yeah Ingrid_Doweary I hope to go back to the library and collect all the city directories of my grgr. gf Thomas Sanders and his wife in the 90s, and his mother-in-law Ella Gibbs, just for my own keeping and documentation....I would like ot find my 3rd
Vicky : is that Edwin Quiller
3rdTHawkins : 3rd great grandfather James Payson in the city directory of Charleston in 70s
Yatah06: yea Edwin Quiller like Edward
ALT : CD' can be excellent tools for filling in the years between Census years.
Selma : Did Charlestown have city directories in the 70's 3rdt
Ingrid_Doweary : Yeah personal archiving on CDs
Vicky : false alarm
ALT : I mean CD's as City Directories Ingrid_Doweary
3rdTHawkins : I think so, I went to the library I saw city directories, I think it was 70s, it may have been just 80s
Ingrid_Doweary : MSNBC reports private plane flew into restricted airspace. ALT thanks for schooling this novice.
AfriVee : Yatah06 I am so proud of you and the progress you are making in your family search with the help of Vicky, Selma and STG. Follow their leads and success will be yours.
ALT : time periods for CD's can be 'vast' Springfield, as small as we are has them going back to .
Ingrid_Doweary : 3rd I 70 CD in Frederick County, MD for my husband's relative
Yatah06: ty
ALT : yw Ingrid_Doweary .....I gotta watch the abbrv when they can refer to multiple things
Ingrid_Doweary : Yeah:)
3rdTHawkins : I wish I could get to DC and look at CD for City Directories, someone at ancestry helped me and found my paternal grandparents in
Vicky : so you think this Joseph and Elsie are Edward QuillerÕs parents yatah06?
STG : ALT: I am going to check out some new ones I see and cross check them with archives.org to be sure they aren't there or ancestry
ALT : they are on the Ancestry version at the Library 3rdTHawkins
3rdTHawkins : I got to go, someone needs to use the computer
where? ALT?
Ingrid_Doweary : No problem, I think I'm a quick learner. I've been listening to AYWaltonÕs podcasts.
Yatah06: I guess since close 86
ALT : wonderful Ingrid_Doweary, use all of the tools in the "box".
Yatah06: if he born 85
ALT : Vicky, can ya take a hint? LOL LOL LOL LOL
Vicky : you slay me ALT!
Selma : Gotta run folks...have a wonderful day.
Ingrid_Doweary : I saw AYWalton, Wed afternoon at the archives during the Genealogy Fair
Vicky : you read my email lol lol
ALT : great, did you introduce yourself Ingrid_Doweary
Vicky : was that your first time meeting her Ingrid_Doweary
Yatah06: if Edward as Edwin same can be his parent
Ingrid_Doweary : Didn't get the chance to introduce myself.
ALT : oh, okay
AfriVee : I was editing the log of yesterday and laughing. Yall had a good time up in here lol
STG : what did we do yesterday?
Vicky : lol AfriVee
AfriVee : Remembering old music
STG : Ohh lol see I can remember stuff
Ingrid_Doweary : Another lady was conversing with her Vicky. Which old music folks
ALT : AfriVee, if it was bad STG did it LOL LOL LOL
STG : make that can't remember and can't type either
AfriVee : okies I hear ya ALT
Vicky : The Dells, Nancy Wilson and many others
STG : no more goodies for you ALT
ALT : Oops. there I go again ..wid my big mouf LOL
AfriVee : lol
Ingrid_Doweary : That's only about - years.
Vicky : there is one video that I would like for you'al to look at when you have time http://www.blackbottom.com/watch.php?v=BdXxuqt6rtt
I had it in my favs lol I am glad you made it for some of the sessions yesterday Ingrid
ALT : y'all too much. I gotta start a folder in favorites for just URL's referenced here in Chat..... Chat Favorites LOL LOL
Vicky : did you see any interesting books? ingrid must be looking at video lol
Ingrid_Doweary : Hadn't seen it yet. WB 3rd
Vicky : wb 3rdTHawkins
3rdTHawkins : ALT, what was it you were saying about Ancestry's version of City Directories at the Library for DC?
Vicky : did you get any handouts or good books Ingrid_Doweary
Yatah06: hey Vicky, I look up us federal census I see Mary darby born about 68 her spose is simmion if you can open one on ancestry.con I cant open one
ALT : Ancestry has put up a new database of CD's from across the nation....check your State for the City's included.
Yatah06: I mean simmons
Vicky : what county was that yatah06
3rdTHawkins : ok thanks
Yatah06: richland, south carolina , Vicky
ALT : and also the years that the CD's are available for your City/State
Ingrid_Doweary : Definitely Vicky, I was reviewing the materials this morning.
3rdTHawkins : ok
Vicky : great Ingrid_Doweary
Yatah06: bec I want know if children with Mary darby
Seventies Soulchild : Hello all!
AfriVee : Yall be good
ALT : where's your tardy slip Seventies Soulchild? LOL
Ingrid_Doweary : Thinking about personal consulting Reginald Washington-NARA for career development Hey Seventies! :)
Seventies Soulchild : lol I have a valid excuse, I was attending a retirement luncheon
ALT : okay then
Seventies Soulchild : lol ALT
Yatah06: Vicky, let me know you see
Ingrid_Doweary : My oldest daughter created a family reunion facebook group.
Vicky : trying to find it now Yatah06I had to bring it up
ALT : well y'all.. gotta run, see ya Sunday good Lord willing & the creek don't rise.
Seventies Soulchild : Oh wow that's great Ingrid
STG : bye ALT
Ingrid_Doweary : It took that to get me to join facebook
Seventies Soulchild : lol the wife is callin' huh ALT.. lol
Yatah06: ok I hold the page if you not find
Vicky : who is the head of household yatah06
Seventies Soulchild : Yea Melvin Collier has a page there, and there is a cool little feature that allows you to link up with relatives.... @ facebook
Yatah06: not said nothing Mary or simmoin that why I can hopen
Vicky : atress is daughter
Ingrid_Doweary : Okay. We linked up a few kinfolk that evening.
Yatah06: who ?
Vicky : someone named Atress
Seventies Soulchild : That's great ingrid.
Yatah06: ohh ok more children of Mary ?
Vicky : oops sorry its a son
Yatah06: her children last three ? ok
Vicky : was her husband named Simmons
Yatah06: yea
Vicky : ok
Yatah06: that why make sure bec Mary born yrs 68
Vicky : I see yatah06! Good looking out
Yatah06: thanks I hope there her children live with her it chance that her
think last two children live with her I hope any find more list on Mary and simmion ?
Khathu : hello everyone
I survived my baby sitting adventure yesterday
Had some difficulties putting on the diaper at first
STG : uh oh
Vicky : wonder what you would have done if you had the real old fashioned ones that you had to fold just right lol
Ingrid_Doweary : But you came through it didn't you-Khathu?
Vicky : now, you are a verified Uncle sitter lol
Ingrid_Doweary : Are you all going to listen to Pres. Obama's press conference on Education?
Yatah06: you can send one Mary darby that can open I can look up , Vicky ?
Seventies Soulchild : Ingrid is that going to be online... ???
Ingrid_Doweary : Most likely it's gonna be on CNN, MSNBC, maybe C-SPAN in a few mintues.
Seventies Soulchild : oh great. I'll watch on cspan.org
Vicky : dang, having trouble saving and sending yatah06
Seventies Soulchild : Great! I love to see my president on tv... lol
Vicky : STG can you send image to yatah
3rdTHawkins : hey Khathu, interesting, Diaper change, so, how did it go?
Vicky : wonder why I am getting the old image
STG : what image Vicky I wasn't paying attention?
Yatah06: my e mail is wellmanfamily7@yahoo.com
Khathu : it went well
3rdTHawkins : never had the displeasure of changing any of my nieces or nephews' diapers
Vicky : the census for Simmons Darby
STG : let me look
Yatah06: ok
Khathu : I discovered I am not ready for children yet
3rdTHawkins : I'm still trying to master the art of not fainting or vomiting while a woman gives birth
Seventies Soulchild : Why do men take so long to decide that they want children?? Don't they realize that their genetic material gets old too...??? lol
3rdTHawkins : lol
Khathu : I think I will be better off adopting one that is already walking and potty trained
Vicky : Simmons Darby [Simmons Darley] Home in Upper Richland, Richland, South Carolina Age: years Estimated Birth Year: abt 66 Birthplace: South Carolina Relation to Head of House: Head Spouse's Name: Mary Father's Birth Place: South Carolina Mother's Birth Place: South Carolina Marital Status: Married Race: Black [Colored (Black)] Sex: Male Home owned: Rent Able to read: No Able to Write: No Image: 9 Neighbors: View others on page Household Members: Name Age Simmons Darby Mary Darby Atress Darby 9
Yatah06: let me know you send me thanks
Ingrid_Doweary : lol lol lol
Seventies Soulchild : LOL Do you really think so??
Khathu : I think so
Vicky : thatÕs for STG
Khathu : I couldn't not doing anything
3rdTHawkins : Seventies Soulchild I want children of my own, I don't want to adopt, I want my own natural children, I never had a father, so I would like to know how it is being a dad
Ingrid_Doweary : WOW! You are do post the findings so well!
3rdTHawkins : Khathu, I wouldn't want to miss the joy of watching a child growing from infantry into a man/woman, I would like to know how that is
STG : SC right?
Yatah06: yes
STG : ok dokey
Seventies Soulchild : That's great 3rdTHawkins...
Vicky : see above STG
STG : got Vicky oops got it
3rdTHawkins : but I think it's natural for men to want to wait til the child is past infantry and potty training, that's the woman's thing to do, the man waits until the child is of a certain age to teach them about life
STG : oooo ate too many cookie
Seventies Soulchild : 3rdTHawkins, don't be one of those old overbearing parents... lol
[Action] STG : looks at 3rd
3rdTHawkins : lol.....I might
Seventies Soulchild : lol STG
Yatah06: oh one son last one sound alike
Khathu : I realized I don't have the patience
3rdTHawkins : I think there are roles in the family, but I see nothing wrong with nuturing a child as a man from infantry and I don't right now Khathu, but I believe I will learn to
STG : that's good 3rd. I personally would like for man to have them
Vicky : lol lol lol
3rdTHawkins : well, obviously that won't happen, so get use to the role
Khathu : I refused to hold infant until they are at least 3-4 months old
3rdTHawkins : you may change that once you have a child Khathu
Khathu : I don't have a problem problem adopting
[Action] STG : doesn't have to get use to the role LOL
Seventies Soulchild : LOL Khathu
Ingrid_Doweary : I started preparing before my daughters were born.
Seventies Soulchild : You dudes are a trip lol
Vicky : khathu my brother raised his son by himself. He was picked as the Father of the year in Corona Calif
3rdTHawkins : that's Khathu SS, I don't mean to take it so seriously or personal, but I don't understand how a man don't want to care for his own children.....but you are willing to take care of someone else's?
Seventies Soulchild : I applaud your bro Vicky!
Vicky : yep, me too Seventies
Khathu : I have raised my oldest nephew and my adopted son
Ingrid_Doweary : Kudos to your bro, Vicky. :)
Seventies Soulchild : I don't either 3rdTHawkins. But some men just don't know how to deal with the responsibility
Khathu : as a single parent
Vicky : awesome Khathu
3rdTHawkins : yeah, that's it
Seventies Soulchild : wow khathu
Ingrid_Doweary : Congrats to all of you parents-guardians
3rdTHawkins : that's cool Khathu at least you were a male role model for someone who DIDN'T have it....very good for you
Khathu : I did what I had to do at the time
Vicky : male role models were hard to find in lots of towns
3rdTHawkins : that's cool, at least you did it, my dad wouldn't waste his time thinking about taking care of anyone but himself
Vicky : sometimes not from their own doings
STG : ok Yatah I sent it to you
Khathu : so true you all have a fantastic weekend
Yatah06: thanks I print it get dig up more
Vicky : a know of a young lady that never knew her dad had been sending letters and gifts for years and the mother never let her know
Seventies Soulchild : That is cold Vicky... wow!
3rdTHawkins : I wish I could let you "real" women loose on my dad, he needs somebody to set him straight, you guys would not like the way he is
Seventies Soulchild : lol I've got 2 conversations going on here....
Yatah06: it clear thanks stg
Vicky : too many people hold grudges and never think of the turmoil it plays on the kids
STG : good yatah
Seventies Soulchild : exactly Vicky
STG : he is who he is 3rd. I doubt there's any "setting him straight"
Seventies Soulchild : Its because of the animosity, in that particular incidence, of the mom
Vicky : have you talked to your dad
STG : Don't waste precious energy
3rdTHawkins : Exactly! STG, thank you, that's what I told my sister
But I didn't mean literally, I'm just trying to make a point, I'm not worrying about him getting his life together, don't get me wrong, I was just say....:)
Vicky : your sister does not feel the way you do 3rd?
STG : I know women whose children's father can easily do for someone else's kids but not their own. Looking from the outside it seems like I will if "we're" together but not if we aren't
Vicky : true STG
STG : but then want to get mad if she moves on with her life
3rdTHawkins : she met him Vicky, she and my brother are the ones telling me how dad is, they are disgusted at him, but we were talking and I was trying to explain how I saw it, I had to make her see it, but she does feel about him like I do, don't get me wrong
Vicky : then when they get old and wrinkled as chitlins they want to be in their lives
STG : yea that's what I told them Vicky. ok maybe not the chitlins part LOL LOL LOL
Yatah06: thanks much mi better go now I pick kids
STG : later yatah
Seventies Soulchild : Yea Vicky when they can't take of themselves and need their offspring to take care of them.... just triflin'
3rdTHawkins : my dad rather a woman take care of him instead of him taking care of her, the children, and the house and himself
STG : he's not alone 3rd
Seventies Soulchild : 3rdTHawkins, ooohh black men like that get on my last nerve! I cannot stand that type of man
Vicky : blame that woman who lets him do that
3rdTHawkins : his current wife divorced him
Seventies Soulchild : I have no respect for a male like that at all
STG : heck I can't take care of me let alone somebody else LOL LOL LOL
3rdTHawkins : that's what's concerning to me Seventies Soulchild, because he was raised to see himself as a white man, but he wants to live his life as a black man, and this is how he chooses to live AS A BLACK MAN
Seventies Soulchild : the young girl in my office has a boyfriend who does the exact same thing. & I don't feel sorry for her at all. :) yes I'm rolling my eyes on that 3rd. . .
STG : 8S do that one SS lol
3rdTHawkins : But I believe he would still live his life like that, even if he saw himself and lived his life as a white man
Seventies Soulchild : I'm doing the eyeroll, and tooth suck, STG lol
STG : lol hand on hip
Seventies Soulchild : Oh yea that too... lol That's one of the first things a sista learns... lol lol lol
STG : again he is who he is
3rdTHawkins : his current [ex] wife had breast cancer, and her daughter believes it's due to him repeatedly hitting her in the chest she had to have her breast removed
Vicky : pray she stays in remission
Seventies Soulchild : It sounds like your biological dad has really made you mad 3rdTHawkins
3rdTHawkins : as I do my research, five years after the divorce, he's still hanging around teh house, there's a court document of him being taking to court for domestic violence by his step daughter
Seventies Soulchild : Again :) 8S :{
3rdTHawkins : it's frustrating Seventies Soulchild, just upsetting I feel bad for her mother because dad just messed up her life, basically, I feel bad for her
Seventies Soulchild : Well that's on her, the ex wife, she's a grown woman and can completely decide what she will and won't deal with. Apparently she's going to deal with this... and seems to be fine with it.
3rdTHawkins : yeah, I disagree SS, but I know about my dad, he's manipulative, my sister described him as a "Professional" Womanizer to me, he's too charming, too good looking, light skinned, and too believable and too irresistable to some females
Vicky : I think what seventies is trying to say is that you are only weak for what you want to be weak for. light skinned has nothing to do with it
3rdTHawkins : for them to not believe him and just leave him, but after being around you, I think you get tired of him enough, I know my mother and my brother and sister's mother did
Vicky : mabe charming and a little belief in herself
Seventies Soulchild : For some women it does. . .
3rdTHawkins : Vicky I believe it is, especially in D.C., my sister knows it well
Ingrid_Doweary : Try that, bottom line if you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything. True that, I meant.
Vicky : people have to have confidence in themselves 3rd thats the sighn of a real woman or man
Seventies Soulchild : I plead the 5th... lol because if we start going into all of that. . . boy will it be some fireworks going
3rdTHawkins : and my step mother was described to me as "sweet", so I'm I can understand how she would take him back or allow him to stay around.....my dad only messes with/talks to certain women
Vicky : exactly what I am saying 3rd..certian women
3rdTHawkins : women he could manipulate and cheat on and won't expect a thing......
Ingrid_Doweary : Personal attributes in particular?
Vicky : low self esteem!!
Seventies Soulchild : Some women are just too sweet, I gave that up a long time ago for cool. lol
3rdTHawkins : that has to be it Vicky, especially for a man raised up to be white and trying to live in a black world. He's light skinned, he has to battle trying to "fit in" the black world
Vicky : bull! He is not the only one that looks like that
STG : pshaw
Ingrid_Doweary : Someone in this group mentioned Kenyatta Berry's article this week. I started reading it in the Family Tree Magazine
STG : I did Ingrid
Seventies Soulchild : 3rd how did that happen? Your dad being raised to be white?? Sounds like some double consciousness going on with him. Which is madness.
STG : I read "at it"
Vicky : what article was that..Is it online Ingrid_Doweary
Seventies Soulchild : In situtations like that, I squarely blame the schizophrenic culture called American. Sad to say, but true.
3rdTHawkins : well, that's my personal assesment, for the most part, I don't think how he was raised or was attempted to be raised has anything to do with how he is, he didn't care about what his parents were saying
Ingrid_Doweary : African American roots obscured by slavery, STG? Vicky, I got my printed magazine the day that chat.
3rdTHawkins : so, yeah, you guys are right, that's Bull :)
Vicky : do you have a link
Seventies Soulchild : Please post, Ingrid, I would like to read that story.article...
STG : somebody needs to clean off my desk!
Vicky : never mind, I will do a google
Seventies Soulchild : lol
Vicky : If my arms were longer
Seventies Soulchild : Sounds like someone has a lot of unfinished work! lol
3rdTHawkins : but I try not to think about all of that, so I can like my dad, otherwise, it's hard to do research thinking about the negative, but no one ever has any positive to say of him
Vicky : you are the positive 3rd, you and your sister
STG : I just have it piled up with stuff!
3rdTHawkins : well, I have to go, I'll catch you guys next week or tomorrow...............Vicky my sister and my two brothers Vicky there's four of us
Seventies Soulchild : If your workspace is messy, its hard to focus imo
STG : I don't think the article is online yet.
Vicky : how ever many 3rd you have to be the positive you are living
STG : nah I focus well amongst clutter
Vicky : and make it better for those around you
3rdTHawkins : yeah, ok then I'm gonna go, bye you guys
STG : too clean and folks will think I don't have anything to do LOL LOL LOL
Seventies Soulchild : True. . . lol lol lol
Vicky : guess I will go also.. time for Wii fit
STG : don't overdo it Vicky
Seventies Soulchild : I have to go to a potty break, I hadn't had one all afternoon.... lol
Vicky : dont worry lol
Seventies Soulchild : Alright, love, peace & hair grease! lol
Talk to y'all next week!
Ingrid_Doweary : I'll try to get for the next chat., bye yall
STG : byee