I think that Tony E. has given you some good information. He found the family that sounds like it is yours. One thing that you must realize is that ages and names are not going to always be spelled the same way that you may know them as in the census records. A variance of only 1 - 2 years for an individual is excellent when you find them in the census, most of us are lucky if we find the person with a variation of 10 years difference. I would suggest that you take the info that Tony found for you and to research from that point.