This was the closest match I could find in 1870. I looked for all George (or Geo*) Wilders born between 1830 & 1840.

1870 Census Not Stated, Dougherty Co., GA
Geo. Wilder 50 M B Laborer b. NC
Silla Wilder 40 F B Keeping House b. GA
Dawson Wilder 18 M B Farm Laborer b. GA
George Wilder 16 M B Farm Laborer b. GA
Lewis Wilder 14 M B Farm Laborer b. GA
Tac? Wilder 12 M B Water Carrier b. GA
Wm Wilder 10 M B b. GA
Mary Wilder 8 F B At Home b. GA
Doc Wilder 6 M B At Home b. GA
Ayers Wilder 2 M B AT Home b. GA
Bettie Wilder 80 F B At Home b. VA

next-door

Geo Jim Wilder 37 M B Farm Laborer b. GA
Louisa Wilder 24 F B Keeping House b. GA
Carrie Wilder 3 F B At Home b. GA
Joe Wilder 5mon M B At Home b. GA b. Dec