Well Y'all--I thought it would end here--nope. Nora and I have exchanged pictures of our individual families. I know what she and her mother looks like. She knows what I look like. And all within 1 week. I have decided she is now a part of my family and that's that. I still have no idea what the Vance relatives in NC look like for whatever reason they have decided. Don't care anymore. But we will be friends by phone. Ancestors will take care of it. WAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!