I can agree with you benita, but what is choices, and how does race not matter when you reject your family members and your children and grandchildren suffer because you refuse to accept who you are and pretend like a certain part of you is non-existent. All because of bitterness, resentment, and unforgiveness, and you carry all of that over to your children, which some are bitter, resentful, and unforgiving for no reason of their own.

A whole family is in division, is separated, not talking with each other all because of your "choices", there's always arguements and disagreements. There's no family reunion, no one wants to talk to anyone, there's no family get together, every sibling lives by their own single selves in their own little family in their own little "choices". One not talking to another.

Race wouldn't matter if it didn't affect the family.