I suspect this acceptance of one heritage while denying the other must be a raging turmoil for them, Gail. What a decision for anyone to need to make. Two waring bodies in one Soul... DuBois wrote eloquently of the twoness of we...

Wishing them every peace in their turmoil. Thanx for goodness that they seek the wholeness with these periodic visits to family. Thanx for goodness that family arms are open to receive them...