You are very welcome, Angela. It is very likely that Harriett Oxford is not your Harriett, I only offered that one to show you how common the Oxford name was in Pike County, Georgia, although Harriett on the 1870 census is close in age to Wade. I would get the 1891 marriage record for Wade and Emma, as it may give Wade's parents names, other relatives of Wade, a mention as to his marital status (divorced/widowed) and the number of times he had been previously married.