I think most of us have the same problem. In 2002, I gave the "I'm-Mad-as-Heck-and-I-Won't-Take-It-Anymore" speech. I told the group that if we didn't get some volunteers that we won't be having reunions anymore. I refused to do most of the work by myself. It actually worked. I don't have an army, but I do have a few more people to delegate to. Sometimes you have to take drastic measures.