Melvyn,
I am going to begin with the last sentence that you wrote about Fesser Wheeler's grandson a MD in the Bay Area. What part of the Bay Area are you speaking about because we live in the Bay Area. Now that I got that out the way, I am married to a Wheeler.
The names I have of my husband family begin with his great-great grandfather who name was John W Wheeler born in MD in 1818 married a Julian M. from this union were 7 children; Thomas, Wesley, Cordelia, Rokealia,
Jefferson (Jeff), Elizabeth and Henry.

Great Grandfather was Jefferson (Jeff) who married Fannie Biddle from this union were 10 children; Carrie, Jackson, Pearlie, Jessie, Verdie (Dee), Mary, Elijah, Isaac, Deliah and Rosa.

Grandfather was Jessie Wheeler who married Rosa Berry from this union were 4 children Abner, Calvin, Jewel and Aaron

Father was Calvin who married Mary Lewis from this union were 2 sons Levell and Jesse who is my husband and we have two children Ladasha and O'Bryce.

I also have a family tree on ancestry.com. The name of the tree is Billington/Wheeler Family Tree (United as One).
I would love to exchange information with you about the Wheelers and also make contact with the grandson to see if there's a connection with the Wheelers. My email address is thecowboys22@hotmail.com please email me.
Didn't mean to get carried away with the writing, but I love doing family history. Hope to hear from you soon. Thanks for sending me the information on the Wheelers. Have a great day.