Georgia, sometimes it's best to listen to MAMA. Maybe she felt something that you did not since you were 18. No matter what nationality the man is, any woman should study their values, the countries laws and the people of that country. Your being a Queen may have meant sharing your husband with many sister-wives and not having a say of any kind.
Whenever I see your name I keep wondering could you be family. Both surnames are part of my research. Walker from SC and Adams from Mississippi.