On Father's Day I went to visit my dad's grave.He died in 1972.I took a plant and a Father's Day card with me.
When I got to the cemetery, I set down under a shady tree and started to sign the card and leave it beside the plant. I ended up writing him a letter on the card instead. I told him all the things that had been happening in my life. I even told him how my research about our family was going. I knew he would approve. When I finished writing I felt his spirit there with me. It was such a nice feeling.
Try writing when you visit the graves of your ancestors
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